Believe Her! The Woman Never Lies
Myth
Frank S. Zepezauer*
ABSTRACT: Empirical evidence does not support the widespread
belief that women are extremely unlikely to make false accusations
of male sexual misconduct. Rather the research on accusations
of rape, sexual harassment, incest, and child sexual abuse indicates
that false accusations have become a serious problem. The
motivations involved in making a false report are widely varied and
include confusion, outside influence from therapists and others,
habitual lying, advantages in custody disputes, financial gain, and
the political ideology of radical feminism.
Male sexual misconduct — rape, incest, stalking, sexual
harassment, child molestation, pornography trafficking — has,
according to some observers, become a problem so big that it demands
a big solution, not only the reform of our legal system but of our
entire society. Yet the increasingly heated debate over this
crisis has focused primarily on how these misbehaviors are defined
and how often they occur. The estimated numbers keep
mounting. We hear that perhaps 31 million women are suffering
from some form of rape, 41 million from harassment, 58 million from
child sexual abuse, and all 125 million of them — from toddlers to
grandmothers — from a toxic "rape culture" that suffocates the
feminine spirit.
Much less discussed is how often an allegation of male sexual
misconduct is false. The question seldom enters the debate
because, presumably, it had long ago been settled.
Pennsylvania State Law Professor Philip Jenkins (1993), in a review
of the "feminist jurisprudence" which leads the sex crisis
counterattack, reports that in response to the question its
proponents have established an "unchallengeable orthodoxy." It
is that "women did not lie about such victimization, never lied, not
out of personal malice, not from mental instability or derangement"
(p.19).
Jenkins is not the first to cite this will to believe.
Wendy Kaminer (1993) reported that "it is a primary article of faith
among many feminists that women don't lie about rape, ever; they
lack the dishonesty gene" (p.67). Eight years earlier, in
1985, John O'Sullivan discovered a widespread defense of the belief
that "no woman would fabricate a rape charge" (p.22).
Feminists themselves admit as much. Law Professor Susan
Estrich stated that "the whole effort at reforming rape laws has
been an attack on the premise that women who bring complaints are
suspect" (Newsweek, 1985, p.61). Some feminists believe that
even defending that premise is a sex crime. Alan Dershowitz
(1993) reports that he was accused of sexual harassment for
discussing in class the possibility of false rape allegations.
Believing the self-proclaimed victim of sexual misconduct has
thus evolved from ideological conviction to legal doctrine and, in
some jurisdictions, into law. California now requires that
jurors be explicitly told that a rape conviction can be based on the
accuser's testimony alone, without corroboration (Associated Press,
1992; Farrell, 1993). Canada is proposing that a man accused
of rape must demonstrate that he received the willing consent of a
sexual partner.
These new rules rest on the assumption that women do not lie
because they have no motive to lie. Consequently, as Jenkins
(1993) states, the question of the "victim's credibility" has now
become "crucial."
Is that credibility warranted, particularly as feminist
jurisprudence would want it established, as nearly automatic?
Not if we consult recent history. And if we do, we will find
that we do indeed face a sexual misconduct crisis, but not the one
radical feminists now insist is ubiquitous in our
society.
False Accusations of Rape
Begin with evidence of false accusation of rape, the crime which
has become not only the metaphor for all cases of sexual misconduct
but for male sexuality itself. Alan Dershowitz (1991), for
example, has further harassed his students by telling them that an
annual F.B.I. survey of 1600 law enforcement agencies discovered
that 8% of rape charges are completely unfounded. That figure,
which has held steadily over the past decade, is moreover at least
twice as high as for any other felony. Unfounded charges of
assault, which like rape is often productive of conflicting
testimony, comprise only 1.6% of the total compared to the 8.4%
recorded for rape.
Consult also a recent development, DNA testing, which is now
becoming routine in rape investigations (Krajik, 1993). Also
routine is the discovery that a third of the DNA scans
produce non-matches. Consequently, a growing number of men are
not only gaining acquittals but are also being released from
prison. As with all rape statistics, these figures need
careful scrutiny. Police investigators warn, for example, that
a mismatch proves innocence only when the DNA could have come from
no one but the assailant and its profile or makeup doesn't match the
suspect's. Even so, the DNA tests, primarily a prosecutorial
weapon, have now been added to the arsenal of defense attorneys, and
more evidence of false allegation is appearing.
Although useful, the F.B.I. and DNA data on sex crimes result
from unstructured number gathering. More informative,
therefore, are the results of a focused study of the false
allegation question undertaken by a team headed by Charles P
McDowell (McDowell & Hibler, 1985) of the U.S. Air Force Special
Studies Division. Its significance derives not only from its
scholarly credentials but also its time of origin, 1984/85, a period
during which rape had emerged as a major issue, but before its
definition included almost any form of non-consensual sex.
The McDowell team studied 556 rape allegations. Of that
total, 256 could not be conclusively verified as rape. That
left 300 authenticated cases of which 220 were judged to be truthful
and 80, or 27%, were judged as false. In his report
Charles McDowell stated that extra rigor was applied to the
investigation of potentially false allegations. To be
considered false one or more of the following criteria had to be
met: the victim unequivocally admitted to false allegation,
indicated deception in a polygraph test, and provided a plausible
recantation. Even by these strict standards, slightly more
than one out of four rape charges were judged to be false.
The McDowell report has itself generated controversy even though,
when rape is a frequent media topic, it is not widely known.
Its calculations are no doubt problematic enough to raise serious
questions. If, out of 556 rape allegations, 256 could not be
conclusively verified as rape, then a large number, 46%, entered a
gray area within which more than a few, if not all, of the
accusations could have been authentic. If so, the 27% false
allegation figure obtained from the remaining 300 cases could be
badly skewed. Moreover, the study itself focused on a possibly
non-representative population of military personnel.
The McDowell team did in fact address these questions in
follow-up studies. They recruited independent reviewers who
were given 25 criteria derived from the profiles of the women who
openly admitted making a false allegation. If all three
reviewers agreed that the rape allegation was false, it was then
listed by that description. The result: 60% of the
accusations were identified as false. McDowell also took his
study outside the military by examining police files from a major
midwestern and a southwestern city. He found that the finding
of 60% held (Farrell, 1993, pp. 321-329).
McDowell's data have received qualified confirmation from other
investigators. A survey of seven Washington, D.C. area
jurisdictions in the 1991/2 period, for example, revealed that an
average of 24% of rape charges were unfounded (Buckley, 1992).
A recently completed study of a small midwestern city was reported
by Eugene J. Kanin (1994) of the Department of Sociology and
Anthropology at Purdue University. Kanin concluded that "false
rape allegations constitute 41% of the total forcible rape cases
reported during this period" (p.81).
Kanin provides significant confirmation of McDowell's findings in
several ways. Kanin's subject, for example, covered a
nine-year period — 1978-87 — during which rape had become a
highly-politicized issue. Members of the police department
from which the data was taken were therefore sensitive to the kinds
of misperceptions about which parties to the dispute had
complained. The city offered a relatively useful model: free
of the unrepresentative populations found in resort areas, remote
from the extreme crime conditions plaguing large communities, small
enough to allow careful investigation of suspicious allegations, but
large enough to produce a useful sample of 109 cases. The
investigators also separated "unfounded" from "false" rape
allegations, a distinction sometimes blurred in other reports.
Moreover, among the strict guidelines used to determine an
allegation's unreliability was McDowell's requirement that only
unambiguous recantations be used.
Equally revealing were addenda following Kanin's basic
report. They reported studies in two large Midwestern state
universities which covered a three-year period ending in 1988.
The finding of the combined studies was that among a total of 64
reported rapes exactly 50% were false. Kanin found these
results significant because the women in the main report tended to
gather in the lower socioeconomic levels, thus raising questions
about correlations of false allegation with income and educational
status. After checking figures gathered from university police
departments, he therefore reported that "quite unexpectedly then, we
find that these university women, when filing a rape complaint, were
as likely to file a false as a valid charge." In addition,
Kanin cited still another source (Jay, 1991) which supported
findings of high frequency false allegations in the
universities. On the basis of these studies, Kanin felt it
reasonable to conclude that "false rape accusations are not
uncommon" (p.90).
Sexual Harassment
Alan Dershowitz's experience with an esoteric definition of
sexual harassment also raises questions about false allegations in
this newly-defined but widely publicized crime. Skeptical
checking has revealed that, as with rape, the percentage of
unfounded accusations of sexual harassment may reach astonishingly
high levels. That was the claim of Randy Daniels, whose
confirmation for New York City's Deputy Mayor was almost derailed by
a sexual harassment charge he was able to refute. To see
whether his experience was relatively rare, Daniels checked with the
Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. He found that in
1991, the EEOC investigated or mediated 2119 cases of sexual
harassment and found that 59% were determined to have no cause
(Daniels, 1993, p. 1). Since the Hill/Thomas affair they have
gone up sharply — up 64% in one year — but so have false
allegations, remaining steadily in the plus 50%
range.
Child Sexual Abuse
This rape and sexual harassment pattern — expanding definitions,
rapidly increasing accusations, intensely politicized publicity
campaigns, and significantly high percentages of false allegations —
has also appeared in still another arena, the agencies which deal
with the sexual molestation of children. With this kind of
sexual misconduct the credibility of a third party, the child,
becomes a factor, and we hear, in addition to appeals to "believe
the woman" an appeal to "believe the child." We are now
learning that children can be manipulated into supplying dramatic
testimony of sexual abuse and that in most cases the accusation
originates not with the child but with the mother. Thus the
question of credibility once again focuses on women. As one
lawyer put it, "For a lot of these people 'believe the child' is
just code. What they really mean is, 'believe the woman, no
questions asked"' (Stein, 1992, p. 160).
To keep this issue in perspective, note three
significant facts. The first is that of the 2,700,000 cases of
child abuse reported every year less than 10% involve serious
physical abuse and only 8% involve alleged sexual abuse (Schultz,
1989). The second is that, contrary to the male
victimizer/female victim paradigm of feminist ideology, at least as
many boys as girls are victimized by child abuse, if not more.
The third is that the majority of child abusers are women, that the
most dangerous environment for a child is a home formed by a single
mother and her boyfriend, and the safest is formed by a married
mother and a husband who is the child's biological father.1
In many cases allegations of child sexual abuse occur in a nasty
divorce made nastier by a custody fight. It is now so common
that it has received scholarly attention and its own acronym,
S.A.I.D. (Sexual Allegations in Divorce). The consensus is
that in "S.A.I.D. syndrome" cases the number of such allegations
increased so rapidly — up from 7 to 30% in the eighties — that one
scholarly team called it an "explosion." Others, noting how
often the guilt of the accused was assumed, used the word "hysteria"
and searched for analogies in the Salem and the McCarthy witch hunts
(Stein, 1992).
Another consensus is being reached: that the majority of these
allegations are false. Melvin Guyer, Professor of Psychology
at the University of Michigan,
reports that "in highly contested custody cases where the allegation
is made, a number of researchers have found the allegations to be
false or unsubstantiated in anywhere from 60 to 80% of those cases "
(Felten, 1991). Another investigative team stated that of 200
cases they studied" about three-fourths have ultimately been
adjudicated as no abuse" (Felten, 1991). Some studies have
come in with a lower but still significant estimate. For
example, a 1988 study by the Association of Family and Conciliation
Courts said that sexual molestation charges in divorces are probably
false one-third of the time (Dvorchak, 1992).
Allegations of child abuse, both divorce related and in general,
are flying out so frequently that those who believe themselves
victimized by false charges have organized a nationwide support
group, VOCAL (Victims Of Child
Abuse Laws), which now includes 80 local chapters. This group
refers its members to both informal and professional counsel, sends
out a newsletter, and offers access to a rapidly expanding data
base. In 1989, its summary of relevant statistics cited 23
studies which reported findings on both sexual and non-sexual child
abuse. Among these, the lowest assessment of false allegation was
35%, the highest 82%, averaging at 66%.
Recovered Memories
Those joining VOCAL are finding that an even more dramatic form
of child abuse allegation is now sweeping the country. It
originates with a "recovered memory" of sexual atrocity, often
involving incest or satanic ritual abuse, usually made by an adult
daughter against her father, and almost always discovered in
therapy. This form of allegation made the headlines when
celebrities such as Roseanne Arnold, La Toya Jackson, and Suzanne
Sommers declared they had suddenly remembered a long repressed
victimization. It is also claiming celebrities among the
accused, most notably Cardinal Bernardin of the Roman Catholic
Church, which was however later recanted.
In such cases the question of credibility applies not only to the
accuser or accused but also to the therapist as well as the
therapeutic technique and its supporting theory. Because cases
of recovered memory of abuse have surfaced relatively recently,
skeptical criticism is just now beginning to appear in the media
although the underlying issues have been under debate for
decades. One result has been the formation of an organization
whose title already makes an assertion, the False Memory Syndrome
Foundation. Thus to VOCAL we can add FMSF among the acronyms coined
in response to the false allegation problem.
It appears to be widespread. The FMSF reported that within
two years of its founding in 1991, it had built a file of 12,000
families who believed themselves victimized by accusations prompted
by false memories. Eleanor Goldstein (Goldstein & Farmer,
1992) estimates that the actual number of involved families reaches
into the tens of thousands. She also cites data from the
National Committee for the Prevention of Child Abuse on the highly
inflated estimates of victimization. Contrary to statements
that one in four women have been abused prior to the age of 18,
retrospective surveys reveal great variations, from 6 to 62%, which
means, Goldstein says, "that we don't have any valid statistics at
all" (p.2).
How many of those reports of remembered child abuse, whether in
the high or low range, were false? Several sources suggest
that they may match figures on false allegations in reports of rape
and sexual harassment. The National Center for Child Abuse
reported that false allegations, which were 35% of all claims in
1975, had by 1993 reached 60% (FMSF Newsletter, 1993).
Other sources suggest that the kind of child abuse caused by
satanic ritual cults is almost totally a myth. There may be a
satan and he may have followers but, contrary to widely held belief
in the mid-eighties, they did not surface all over middle
America. Where accusations actually led to trials, as in
Jordan, Minnesota and in Los Angeles in the McMartin Preschool Case,
prosecutors suffered embarrassing defeats. An extensive New
Yorker report of a Washington State case reveals that at least
one conviction was indeed achieved. However, after a careful
analysis of the facts, the writer concludes that it was a grievous
miscarriage of justice, one more ghastly example of the recovered
memory theory gone amok (Wright, 1993).
With regard to recovered memory cases which do not involve
satanism, other indications point to a high number of false
allegations. A strong phalanx of professional opinion has
raised significant doubts about the veracity of long repressed
memories even within a carefully disciplined therapeutic
context. For that reason emphatic warnings are now being
issued against their being used in a courtroom — not to mention a
press conference — without persuasive corroboration, which, it
appears, is often missing. Some mental health experts make the
point more pungently. Dr. Paul Fink, head of Psychiatry at
Albert Einstein Medical Center said, "If a therapist says 70 to 80%
of patients remember abuse, I say the therapist ought to be a
shoemaker" (Sifford, 1992). Dr. Richard Ofshe, a member of the
FMSF professional advisory board who exposed the proliferating
fallacies in the Washington State case, stated that "the incidence
of cases in which repressed memories correspond with facts about
abuse is as common as Siamese twins joined at the head" (Brzustowicz
& Csicsery, 1993, p.8).
Motivations of Accusers
Even so, reasonable doubts about a woman's veracity in all these
often sensationalized sexual misconduct cases do not necessarily
mean that she has deliberately lied. She may, for example,
have suffered from confusion, a problem now proliferating as the
definition for sex crimes becomes increasingly complicated and
inclusive, leaving all parties struggling with questions about
definition and propriety. Or she may have been affected by
emotional instability or mental illness, which one study reported
was a factor in 75% of false allegation in divorce cases (Wakefield
& Underwager, 1990). In some cases a woman or her
defenders might exaggerate a misdemeanor into a felony or, as
happened in Washington state, translate bad parenting into sexual
misconduct.
In addition, there has been a tendency to emphasize what a victim
felt rather than what happened. Thus, a woman can truthfully
say she felt raped, abused or harassed by behavior which is actually
non-criminal. Moreover, the woman's feelings are often
influenced by outside parties with whom she has confided — friends,
family members, social workers, therapists, clergymen, rape
counselors, lawyers, political activists — any of whom can interpret
her emotion as a sign of felonious abuse.
With regard to recovered memory, evidence published by the FMS
Foundation suggests that the woman may be as much victimized by
therapy or by recovery movement" enthusiasm as by a perpetrator
hidden in her subconscious. Ericka Ingram, the primary accuser
in the Washington State case, had come under the influence of both
secular and religious counselors. Their intrusive
encouragement helped to loosen a flood of wild charges she leveled
against her father and mother as well as two of her father's
colleagues. These realizations have led to an increasing
number of lawsuits now being filed by former patients against
incompetent or overzealous therapists. By the same token,
among the divorcing wives who file sexual molestation charges
against their husbands are some who have been coached by
self-serving lawyers. Columnist Barbara Amiel (1989) stated
that "a lawyer is coming close to negligence if he does not advise a
client that in child custody cases and property disputes, the mere
mention of a child abuse allegation is a significant asset"
(p.25).
In The Morning After, Katie Roiphe (1993) reported still another
cause of false allegations: political passions generated by
activities such as the "Take Back the Night" marches. She
tells about "Mindy" who so wanted to be a "part of this blanket
warmth, this woman-centered nonhierarchical empowered notion" that
she was "willing to lie" (pp. 40-41). A similar story was told
by a Stanford University professor whose daughter was, he claimed,
behind a conspiracy to murder him. He testified that he had
had a good relationship with her until she attended an anti-rape
rally. "She appeared to have gotten swept up ... and was
experiencing great emotional distress" (Wykes, 1993).
These mitigating circumstances have often softened the judgment
of authorities who confront women guilty of misrepresentation.
In the Washington D.C. area, for example, police send women who lied
about rape not to the court room but to a counseling center.
The Princeton woman who accused a fellow student suffered no more
than an obligation to write a public apology. Because of these
sometimes compelling reasons for a departure from the truth, many
officials hesitate to call a woman a liar.
But it appears, some women with little or no evidence do not
hesitate to call a man a rapist. It also appears that more
than a few of them have in fact knowingly and willfully lied.
Regardless of the influences working on Ericka Ingram, for example,
there came a point when the evidence openly confounded her story,
leaving her with the choice either to persist or recant.
Because she not only persisted but further embellished her story,
Richard Ofshe called her an "habitual liar" (Wright, 1993,
p.69). Whether Anita Hill lied about Clarence Thomas still
cannot be determined, but David Brock demonstrated that in several
other matters she had indeed lied. And as Charles P. McDowell
and other rape allegation researchers have discovered, at least one
out of four women in their study population have openly admitted to
having lied.
Such disclosures should encourage skepticism toward the now
widely held belief that, in accusations of sexual misconduct, women
never lie. The same skepticism should be activated when we
hear its supporting explanation: that filing such a charge is so
painful that only a truthful woman would proceed. That belief,
although equally strong, is equally suspect. The research that
revealed how many sexual misconduct allegations are false has also
revealed how often these unfounded accusations are strongly
motivated.
The clearest example of compelling motive can be found in the
Sexual Allegation in Divorce (S.A.I.D.) syndrome. In such
cases questionable allegations multiply because the accuser has far
more to gain than to lose. Simply charging a divorcing spouse
with child molestation — or wife battering or spousal rape — can
turn a hot but evenly balanced custody battle into a rout. In
many cases, the accused husband must vacate what had been the
"family" home and submit to prolonged alienation from his
children. He also finds himself ensnared by both the criminal
justice and the social service bureaucracies whose conflicting rules
of evidence can deny him the presumption of innocence. In a
process that only a Kafka can describe, he must then devote his
resources to defending himself rather than pursuing the original
divorce litigation.
Even then he may find himself in jail or in court ordered therapy
while his accuser has won de facto custody not only of the
children but of the house. Should he eventually win
vindication, a process which can literally take years, he may enjoy
at best a hollow victory which leaves him financially and
emotionally drained, nursing a permanently injured reputation and
functioning as an "absent" father with a sparse schedule of
controlled visits. It is no wonder, then, that to express the
reality commentators have sometimes used dramatic language, such as
"the ultimate weapon" or the "atom bomb."
The impressive results that are so often easily achieved with
false allegations in custody disputes suggest the kind of
temptations women may feel in other situations. Among those
found to have lied about rape or sexual harassment, for example, a
number of motivations have been identified. The McDowell
report listed those they uncovered in declining order of
appearance. "Spite or revenge" and "to compensate for feelings
of guilt or shame" accounted for 40% of such allegations (Farrell,
1993, p. 325). A small percentage were attributed to
"mental/emotional disorder or attempted extortion." In all
cases, then, the falsely alleging woman had any of several strong
motives to lie. But, as with the S.A.I.D. syndrome, the most
common motive was anger, an emotion which prompts more than a few
embattled women to reach for "the ultimate weapon.
Although money gained through extortion ranked low among the
motives for false rape allegations, it appears to rank higher when
sexual harassment claims prove to be unfounded. A casual
survey of some of the suits that have been filed suggests why.
In the eighties, successful claims often brought damages in the
$50,000 to $100,000 range. After the explosion ignited by the
Hill/Thomas case, not only the number of claims but damage awards
have skyrocketed. A clothing store cashier successfully sued
her employer for $500,000. Employees of Stroh's Brewery
claimed that the company's commercials, which showed the "Swedish
Bikini Team," constituted harassment and sued for damages ranging
between $350,000 and $550,000. In the famous locker room
harassment case, Lisa Olson was reported to have received a
settlement ranging between $250,00 and $700,000. Damage claims
— and awards — in the millions are becoming more common.
In some cases which were later proved to be false, the financial
stakes were particularly high. One lawyer was charged with
coaching six of his clients to "embellish or lie" about some of the
incidents on which they based a sexual harassment case. They
had asked for $487,000 (Gonzales, 1993). Eleven women from the
Miss Black America Pageant, after claiming that Mike Tyson had
touched them on their rears, filed a $607 million lawsuit against
him. Several of the contestants later admitted they had lied
in the hope of getting publicity and cashing in on the award money
which would have given them around $20 million each (Farrell, 1993,
p.328).
But where extortion does appear, the motivation may be political
as well as monetary not only in particular cases but in the growth
of the entire sexual misconduct crisis. Whether it is rape or
sexual harassment or divorce-related child molestation or recovered
incest memory, many of the investigators eventually mention the
influence of ideological feminism. Katie Roiphe, for example,
found feminist politics at work in the phony rape story invented by
Mindy, the imaginative Princeton co-ed. Norman Podhoretz, who
wrote about "Rape in Feminist Eyes," attributes the current
over-publicized obsession with rape to "the influence of man-hating
elements within the (women's) movement (which) has grown so powerful
as to have swept all before it" (1992, p.29). As far back as
1985 John Sullivan attributed the overheated denial of false
accusation to attempts to defend the "feminist theory of
rape." And Philip Jenkins (1993), who reported the trend
toward automatically-assumed female credibility, stated that it was
part of a larger campaign to establish "feminist jurisprudence."
Whatever their motivations in particular cases, there is little
doubt that ideological feminists have achieved significant political
gains from publicizing the sexual misconduct crisis. Lisa
Olson's feelings of harassment may for example have been genuine,
but as the focus for a prolonged media event that established for
female reporters an access to locker rooms it was as unpopular with
the general public as it was with male athletes. The real
Anita Hill may or may not have been lying, but the Hill/Thomas
affair propelled sexual harassment into a hot issue that rapidly
generated a subindustry of scholars, consultants, and bureaucrats,
prompted a "Year of the Woman" campaign that helped several women
into congress, and revived a flagging women's movement.
The same spectacular results may follow from the Tailhook
Scandal, which, like Hill/Thomas, is raising serious questions about
motive and credibility. Whether Paula Coughlin's testimony
will become as clouded as Anita Hill's, her whistle-blowing has
already scuttled the careers of a still growing number of naval
officers, not to mention the Secretary of the Navy himself,
intensified in-service anti-sexual harassment campaigns, reinforced
an already strong feminist presence in the armed forces, and helped
soften the military's granitic opposition to women in combat.
These incidents also helped to power a "Violence Against Women" bill
through congress which will channel still more millions of
government money into women's programs, not to mention winning
congressional validation of feminist jurisprudence. That's a
lot of political gain achieved by the words of a few women who
suffered little more than an affront to their
sensibilities.
Conclusions
This growing gap — between the anguish suffered by the victims of
traditionally-defined sex crimes and what is suffered by victims of
ideologically-defined crimes — suggests that the crisis we face is
not the result of a sexual misconduct epidemic but of the crisis
mentality itself, an ever more hysterical vision of a "rape
culture." It has a foundation in reality. In what has
become a ritual disclaimer, those who have exposed the surprising
number of false allegations of sexual misconduct have also admitted
the appalling number of genuine accusations. And those who
have attacked the incompetence, self-interest, and zealotry that has
denied the extent of false allegation have also recognized the
courage and energy that has exposed the problem of honest allegation
begging vainly for belief. They have therefore applauded the
effort to seek for this long ignored injustice both social and legal
remediation.
But that effort, carried too far and exploited too often, has
generated another gap: between our awareness of the now highly
visible victims of sexual misconduct and the almost invisible
victims of false allegation. The lesser known victims have
their own stories to tell, enough to reveal another long ignored
injustice that demands remediation. False allegations of
sexual misconduct have deprived a rapidly growing number of men and
women of their reputations, their fortunes, their children, their
livelihood, and their freedom; have wasted the time and money of
countless tax-supported agencies; have destroyed not only
individuals but entire families and communities; and have left some
so desperate that they have taken their lives.
For that reason, in the current revision of our sexual misconduct
code, we must retain as a guiding premise the realization that women
can lie because we know that, for several reasons, more than a few
women have lied, more often than researchers into false allegation
had expected, far more often than "rape culture" ideologues have
admitted ... too often, in any event, to be ignored by our
jurisprudence, feminist or otherwise.
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These assertions are themselves widely disputed.
However, one of the most extensive studies on the subject, by
Strauss and Gelles (1990) reports that for physical abuse, the
rate is higher for mothers than for fathers: 17.7% for mothers
vs. 10.1% for fathers. They found that preteen boys are
slightly more likely to be abused than their sisters but that
the pattern changes alter puberty. Strauss and Gelles,
however, also refer to some contravening studies that show
higher rates for fathers.
Susan Steinmetz (1977/78) who has collaborated with Strauss
and Gelles, reported independently that "mothers abused
children 62% more often than fathers, and that male children
were more than twice as likely to suffer physical injury"
(p.499).
David C. Morrow (1993) reports: "Drawing upon reports of
the American Humane Association, the Association of Juvenile
Courts, the National Center for the Prevention of Child Abuse,
and the FBI's 1978 crime report, John Rossler of Equal Rights
for Fathers of New York State estimated that mothers commit
over two-thirds of all child abuse, 80% of it in sole custody
and none in joint custody situations, while boyfriends and new
husbands perpetrate most of the rest. A similar study
conducted a few years earlier in Utah by Ken Pangborn showed
abuse 37% higher among single mothers than the general
population and 67% of all abuse in the doing of women of whom
80% are single mothers."
Diane Russell (1986) reports that of adult women in San
Francisco who reported one or more experiences of incestuous
abuse, overall 4.5% were abused by a father (biological, step,
foster or adoptive). But the abuse was much more likely
to occur with a stepfather. Russell reports that 17% of
the women who were raised by a stepfather were abused by him
compared to 2% of the women who were raised by a biological
father. This indicates the greater risk to a girl of
growing up in a household without her biological father.
Thomas Fleming (1986) cites a Canadian study that concluded
that preschoolers were 40 times as likely to be abused in
broken and illegitimate families as compared to those in
intact two-parent families.
The consensus thus appears to support the assertion that
child abuse is much more common in single parent families or
families missing the biological father, that women are more
often the abusers, and that male children are more often the
victims. [Back] |
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| * Frank S. Zepezauer is a teacher and
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